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Real Wedding in Hermanus {Lizeth & Danie}

You probably won’t even be aware of this, but there’s been a lot of debate recently in the wedding blogging community. We are, according to some commentators, way too obsessed with details, only blogging about weddings that cost thousands of dollars and are overrun with mason jars, and forgetting what weddings are really about. I’m not even engaging with that here, but if ever there were an example of a wedding that holds love at its very core, where the details and décor are crafted with care, where the day is full of happiness and laughter and the simple things in life, then this is it. Lizeth and Danie went back to basics, and planned a day full of the people and things that made them happy. A tent on a Hermanus beach. A beautiful handmade wedding dress. Bunting. Picnic baskets full of homemade food. And you know what? It’s still ridiculously pretty. So kick off your shoes, and enjoy the gorgeous pictures from Annemari Ruthven that so brilliantly capture the light and joy of this special day. Read more

Real Wedding at Strandkombuis {Ingrid & Pieter}

Ok, I have to tell you, I am in LOVE with this wedding. Like, properly. Full-blown, fill your mailbox with orange tictacs, build you a house of candles, stand outside your window with a boombox kind of love. You may even have seen it before, but I don’t care. It is the absolute definition of boho beach perfection and it’s filled with my favourite things. Floral crowns for the bride and bridesmaids, blackboards, proteas, flocks of origami birds, hanging bottle vases, lots of bright whites, sparkly lights and the cutest fringed beach umbrellas. Not to mention a fab venue (Strandkombuis), a beautiful couple who are completely gaga for one another and the most gorgeous, swoonworthy photographs from dream team welovepictures. I have stars in my eyes just looking at it all, and when I heard about the bride’s entrance music (Florence and the Machine’s Cosmic Love) I so choked up. (Take a moment, get out your iPod. It may be the best entrance ever.) Sit back and immerse yourself in the amazingness… Read more

Real Wedding at Lagoon Beach Hotel {Liezl & Daniel}

Every love story is special, we know this. Every chance meeting, every barrier crossed. But sometimes I get a bride’s wedding story and I get swept up in the enthusiasm she has for her wedding and her marriage, and the love she and her new husband share. Because this is why we’re here, people. The details, the dresses, all the prettiness? They’re awesome, but they’re accessories to the main event. They’re really just ways of a couple expressing their personalities and for all the people who love them to share in their joy. And today’s wedding is full of that joy and exuberance – I know you are going to LOVE it! Plus, these are some of the most gorgeous pictures it’s been my pleasure to work with. Ian Mitchinson always has such a unique and dramatic take on wedding photography, and it works perfectly with this beautiful bride and groom and their city cross beach chic wedding. It’s everything a Cape Town city wedding should be. Read more

Real Wedding at Jakkalsfontein Nature Reserve {Heidi & Donnie}

There’s something about a beach house, isn’t there? For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted one, with shutters and white floorboards and falling asleep to the sound of the surf and salt in my nostrils. For so many of us South Africans, the beach is our happy place. So I honestly can’t think of a more amazing venue than the one Heidi and Donnie chose for their wedding, since it’s Heidi’s parents’ beach house right on the ocean in Jakkalsfontein. Beautiful, coastal rustic and as personal as you can get. Heidi brought her love of hearts into the decor, and after their ceremony, the couple decided to buck convention by having bowl foods and canapes served to their guests, who were able to mingle and dance and relax in break out areas. Doesn’t it sound amazing? (Well, wait until you see how good it looks, courtesy of Hearts in a Shutter‘s Brenda Wardall!) I just love when brides and grooms decide to do things a little differently to suit their venue or guests or just the kind of party they want to have. If you want a dinner party feel, do it. If you want a brunch, do it. If you want a rock concert, do it! Have the ceremony and the meal when and where you want – make the conventions work for you. I guarantee that not only will you have an amazing time and be more relaxed on the day if you feel like you’re in your element, but your guests will remember your wedding more than any other. Read more

Inspiration Board: Aqua & Rose

Happy Monday, lovelies! I have so much goodness coming your way this week, it’s going to be like awesome real wedding palooza. But first, I have a very special inspiration board. This one was created especially for bride-to-be Chantel, who wrote to me for some help a couple of weeks ago. Chantel wanted a pretty, romantic look for her wedding at a beachside venue, and she wanted lots of white and aqua for her bridesmaids, but she wasn’t sure if she should introduce any other colours. Although aqua and white on their own are lovely, I always think the addition of another colour adds more dimension and gives you more options when you’re sorting out your details, so I sent Chantel a few different options. There’s so much that goes with aqua – coral, lemon yellow, pretty taupe neutrals, for example – but Chantel and her hubby-to-be’s favourite was a mixture of aqua with rosy pink tones, inspired by the gorgeous image top left. So here’s the rest of what I came up with – light, clean and very romantic!

The key to a look like this is to base everything on a white on white palette, so that you don’t overuse the bright pink and aqua shades – you can also bring in a bit of grey or silver to help. Chantel wondered if a grey or silver damask may work for the tablecloths, and it would, but I think only if it was very subtle (as lovely as damask is, it can really dominate when used in black and white, for example). I’d suggest runners or square overlays as an alternative, and for this palette you could use pretty Cath Kidston-style prints like the pattern seen below from photographer Christine Meintjes’ gorgeous aqua and pink wedding. To bring in the aqua on the tables, I love the idea of using milk glass (or, if not actual milk glass, then glass containers spraypainted white and differing shades of aqua as in the original picture). So pretty! I also added in some beachy touches with shells and starfish, or you could get hold of some pretty white urchin shells or similar, just for a little bit of beach appeal (starfish may make a lovely motif for a romantic beachside wedding). Another place to bring aqua in is in the bride’s shoes (love these ones!) – another pretty little pop of colour alongside the bridesmaids’ dresses, without going overboard. Keep everything soft, especially the flowers (thinking peonies, roses, carnations -  maybe with a few anemones for extra visual interest). I also think the ombre trend I spoke about last week works beautifully here – in invitations that have a beachy, washed out look, in pretty cake slices, and in pink flowers that graduate from deep pink to pale pink. For a final, beachy fun touch, have an ice cream bar where guests can create their own cones or sundaes at cocktail hour (or late at night). Or why not try the absolute latest trend and have classy jelly shots instead?

So here you go! Hope you like your board Chantel, and that it’s a good starting point for your ideas!

Colours: Aqua, pink, white, grey

Top row (l-r): Milk glass containers with flowers; Vera Wang wedding dress (Jose Villa); shell with napkins; bride & groom (Nakai Photography)
Row 2: Valentino aqua shoes; starfish place setting (Mike Adrian Photography); table decor (Julie Lim); milk glass vases (Shay Cochrane); pink ombre cake; beach hair style (First Comes Love Photo)
Row 3: Wedding party; aqua ombre invitation; pink flowers; ice cream cones

Nautical Wedding Ideas

I don’t know about you, but lately I have been LOVING everything nautical coming out of weddings. I don’t know, maybe I’ve just always had a thing for boats, or maybe it’s that it’s the epitomy of coastal preppy style. Either way, if this is something you’re considering, I have loads of real wedding inspiration for you!

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Real Wedding at Die Strandloper {Nadine & Philip}

There’s a part of me that is all Tiffany’s girl. Give me a martini (vodka, extra dry extra cold with a twist, cheers), a pair of Badgleys and a rooftop bar in Manhattan and I’m a happy woman. But I grew up on the coast, and there’s another big part of me that is all barefoot, shell necklaced and freckle nosed. That wants nothing more than salt on my lips and the beat of the surf in my ears. That’s one of the reasons why I’m so in love with beach venues, and the more rustic, the better. Today’s is about as laid-back seaside as you get – the awesome Strandloper restaurant in Langebaan, where you can rock up, pay your cover and enjoy a long session of fresh and delicious seafood right on the beach. (I am seriously salivating right now just thinking about it!) Nadine and Philip chose it as their wedding venue, and the result was a super relaxed day with family and friends that I am completely smitten over. Their details are just subtle enough to enhance the venue, never competing with it, and allowing all of their guests to get into the beachy groove. As usual, Warren Williams‘ pictures really bring the celebrations to life. Doesn’t it just look like so much fun? I want to be there. Now. Read more

Pinwheel Love


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Okay, so this is one of those posts I had lined up that never made it onto the blog last year for some reason. And I usually try to showcase fresh trends, so first I thought I would let it go, because pinwheels have been around for a little while now (things move fast in Blogland). But then I thought, you know what, I still LOVE pinwheels. They make me happy. They remind me of when I was a little girl and we used to visit my Grandpa in Umdloti. You could find them at the local shop next to the plastic buckets and spades and the little fishing nets. They’re beyond whimsical, and they sum up everything I love about long, lazy summer days. I haven’t had enough of them, not by a longshot.


Left to right: Pinwheel escort cards, pinwheels in vase, pinwheel drink stirrers

Besides, this is one trend that I haven’t seen much of in real South African weddings. Considering how many of us are getting married on the beach, it made me wonder if perhaps they just haven’t had their day with us yet. So I’m making a pitch for pinwheels. After all, hey’re easy to DIY, and you can make them out of gorgeous (vintagey?) scrapbook paper that compliments your wedding colours or go for something more classical like book pages or sheet music. They’re adorable escort cards and can also be added to cake or cupcake toppers or drink stirrers. And you know they’ll make your guests smile, however you use them.


Pinwheel aisles left; right

You could even use pinwheels to line your aisle – go as big as you like for maximum effect. Or give each of your guests one to hold up in the breeze (even better, alternate with little flags or ribbon wands) after the ceremony. And you know how South African guys never want to wear a flower on their lapel? Pinwheels are a great alternative. You could even have your bridesmaids carry them instead of or as well as flowers (sounds weird, but how cute do they look in these pictures? And you’d save a bunch on flowers that don’t get used past the ceremony anyway).


Left to right: Pinwheel boutonniere; pinwheel bridesmaids

Even if you don’t use them in your wedding, pinwheels would make adorable props for an engagement shoot. Or a bridal shower. Or… well, you get the picture. They’re cute, whatever you do with them.


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Want to know how? It’s so easy to make these, even I could do it. (The following instructions are adapted from Martha Stewart – you can find the original tutorial here.)

You’ll need:

A thin dowel or skewer, cut to the desired length and painted
Two coordinating sheets of origami or lightweight paper
Spray mount glue
Push pin
Map pin

1 Cut a square of paper from each sheet in the size you’d like your pinwheel to be. Spray glue the two squares together.
2 Fold the sheets in half diagonally, and then in half again. Unfold.
3 Cut along each crease two thirds of the way to the square’s centre, dividing each corner into two points.
4 Bring every other point to the centre so that the points overlap. Holding them in place, poke a pushpin through the centre and keeping points in place remove pin.
5 Insert a map pin into the hole (the hole will be slightly larger from the pushpin, which allows the pinwheel to spin).
6 Thread a small bead onto the pin behind the wheel and poke pin into dowel one and a half centimetres from the top. (Soak dowel in water to avoid splitting if necessary.)

Beach weddings in Cape Town

Today’s guest post comes from the lovely Kate Rawbone over at Wedding Concepts, a top Cape Town wedding management and travel consultancy. She and the rest of the Wedding Concepts team go out of their way to create distinctive celebrations, and I’m delighted that we’ll be featuring some of their weddings right here soon (in the meantime, have a look at their blog). Kate’s here today to offer some top tips for hosting a beach ceremony or reception in the Cape – including the legal ins and outs – essential advice for anyone who’s planning this sort of celebration. Welcome, Kate, and thank you!

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Image: Jules Morgan/Wedding Concepts

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